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Q.
So I finally did things the correct way, dating a man for a while before fucking or sucking him. He is 30, very attractive and hilarious-makes me laugh til it hurts. We started with oral and when I got down there I found a mini penis attached to him. What? Such a disappointment. I would feel like a cunt if I broke up with him due to his teenie weenie. It does get hard occasionally (he has diabetes and it appears that makes a difference). I will never find the right man. If they are well hung, they seem to be arrogant. When they are kind, sure enough, willy the size of a thumb. Am I shallow?
Goldie Cocks
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You can help his cock out by fucking him on the floor. Throw a thick blanket (so you don't bang up your knees) on the floor, put a pillow vertically under his ass and squat on him. This will ensure you get every millimeter of his manhood up inside you. As far as him being soft due to Diabetes, you can ask him in a sexy way to try some Viagra for you. It's ok for a young, fit man to try it once in awhile (the older, heavier men with weaker hearts are the ones whoneed to be very careful taking Viagra). If you really like this guy (it sounds like you do) try and help him out a bit. After all, sex usually doesn't last more than 2 hours a day, so it's a good idea to be with someone who can also stimulate your mind for the other 22hours, not just your snatch.
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I don't really have a problem, just fishing for some tips on how to spoil my woman. We've been together for 4 months now and sex is good but it seems to be plateauing. Tell me how to blow her mind Doc. Seriously.
Son of Suzy Cream-cheese
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Try and make sure neither of you are full. Having sex on an empty stomach works best (more blood for your genitals). Get your room candle lit and have some Jimi Hendrix (or Prince) music on for her. Tell her to just lie there and let you spoil her. Massage her with some warm oil; her feet, legs, rump. Then when you get to the back, before you put any oil on her, start nibbling her back gently with your teeth. No tiny pinching bites; big, firm but not too hard, grasps, just enough to make her feel delicious enough to eat. Go up and down her back avoiding the spine and bony areas. Then massage her with the oil. Roll her over and nibble her inner thighs. Lick them from knee to crotch with big long firm tongue strokes. But make sure you take your time before diving into her pussy. Make her yearn for you. The longer you spend working on her body, the hungrier and hornier she will grow. You know what to do next.
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I have been with my partner for 6 years and have a kid. I have recently found out the over the last 12 months she has often had sex with someone else. She even had a threesome with him and another guy. Is there anyway that we can work stuff out and still be a couple?
Bamboozled by Love
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You can't really trust her anymore since she hid this from you. You need to decide how important sex is to you both. If you have a very deep connection and get a long really well outside the bedroom and she treats you well, you may want to over look her sexual habits (or join in with them). However, if you are the jealous type and the thought of your woman sucking off some other guy really gets under your skin, you may have to leave her. It will be easier for you to find another woman that it will be for her to find a man to take her seriously.
Forbidding her from fucking other men would just be a huge waste of time. She would probably promise it right to your face but still shag around behind your back, so it really boils down to this: can you live withan open relationship or not as she likes a variation of cock.
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For 1 year I've been with a Scottish bloke. We've known each other since childhood and he moved away 20 yrs ago & recently found me online. We talked; catching up on the past. He was married and has a son and I was married and also have a son.
Aftera while, we noticed that it clicked. And the first time we saw each other again….. BOOM! Since then, we were just so good together. Everything was right, humor, talking and insanely hot sex. His son likes me; my son digs him. Brilliant. We'd both gone through our shit and saw that this was a good thing happening.
For a year now, we've been back & forth to see each other. He can't leave cause he has a business there and my son goes to a fantastic school and I've a great job here.
I'm still keen but he's turned “cooler”. He doesn't call much &he used to go overboard & I'm spoilt from it, but now it's next to nothing. I don't wanna nag, cos that's not me, but at the same time I don't wanna just let it slip. He says he loves me but he's “overwhelmed”. His business had a set back and it's making him grumpy.
It's like a drug he gave me for a year & now it's cold turkey. What does a woman do, that wants her bloke to love her like before? I don't recall feeling this way before. That's why I'm frustrated ¬ sure how to react
Maggie Mae
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Men usually put work first, so if they love their work and all is going well with work, they are happy and it is easy for them to treat theirloved ones well. If work is shit, their moods turn to shit and theyjust do not have the energy or desire to be overly nice to anyone. Just keep busy and if he gets in touch, do not mention the lack of communication, just be happy to hear from him. You two went all those years without contact and you were still ok, what's a week or two with no contact now? All relationships chill out after a while, yeah, that sucks as that "drug" is oh so fucking awesome, but it is not reality. Let him do his thing and come to you when he needs you.
Do NOT nag, whine, cry or mention it, just keep busy and you will be the "different" woman who doesn't give him shit. Join a yoga class, learn how to massage, belly dance,etc. anything to prevent him from being the center of your universe. First comes you, then your son, THEN him. If he still doesn't come bouncing back, you will still be fit and happy because of all the new shit you've been busy learning and that will make you attractive to the next lucky fucker who comes your way.
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My girlfriend and I (both in our 40's) have been together for 16 months, and live together for last 6 months (her flat). Pretty fast I know, but finances played a role (I am out of work). She seems to shave her pussy before she goes out with her "male mates" without me (she has quite a few), She told me she slept around A LOT before she met me, and though she also told me she never cheated on a boyfriend, I did find that she lied about having slept with a particular one of her closest "male mates" prior to meeting me. She also recently told me she feels like she has to lie about seeing some of said mates because she thinks I won't like it. I told her the truth is extremely important, and if I have any discomfort, it is far LESS important than telling the truth, and we could talk about it. Thus, I am now left feeling uncomfortable with the situation and am not sure how to deal with it. How far would she take these lies? Any advice
-Wondering Wilhelm
A. Perhaps she feels she has the right to behave like this since you aren't contributing financially. She seems to be acting like a macho man. You have already caught her in a big lie and frequent "little lies"; she admitted to feeling like she "has to lie to you" (too much lying going on here) and no one has to shave their genitals before going to out meet "friends". It sounds to me like she thinks of you as a Dad or a Brother, not a boyfriend. At her age, I really doubt she will be changing her behavior patterns anytime soon. She used to be very promiscuous? Once a slag; always a slag- not that it's a bad thing but that shit never changes and it seems to bother you. Either accept her "independent ways" or find another roommate to help with the rent. You will easily find another woman to love you but she will have a hard time finding any man to put up with her bullshit, especially at that age.
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After my divorce I have just had my first experience with a man. As I never used condoms with my husband I never remembered to use one with him. He was younger than me and very clean and sporty so I also did not see him as a big risk. Have I broken a big taboo by having a one-niter in this fashion and need to watch out in the future or is the odd one ok?
Petrified Paula
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You can't judge some by their age or appearance. Some young people sleep around much more than older people, simply because they can. Using a condom is always the best route to take. I would go have a check up and blood test to ease your mind.
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I have been dating a woman for last six months. Once we had a conversation about cheating. I said I would never do that, and that if I wanted to be someone else that would mean we should not be together. I really do believe that. When I asked her would she cheat, she said “ I would cheat on you if you piss me off!”. I could hardly believe what she said. In my opinion this is a very bad sign, especially since we did have 2-3 times when one of us got pissed. I think that conflicts happen sometimes in mature relationships, we are both 45+ years old, and having what I think so far was a serious relationship. When I told her later that this did not sound very good, she tried to avoid direct answer, excusing it on her previous husband who cheated on her and that she was reflecting on that. Sounds quite bad to me.
Non cheating boyfriend.
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Women usually stray for two reasons (1) Revenge (2) To get more attention/admiration if they are not getting enough with their partner. Most women do not cheat when they are in love. The word cheating bothers me. One cheats on a test or at a game, but not so, in my opinion, in a relationship. The difference between dating and marriage, in my eyes, is people should still be able to do whatever they want before they make that HUGE commitment called marriage. “Cheating” used to be called "playing the field". Thing is, you can NOT force someone to be monogamous. People are physically committed when they want to be. Stressing about monogamy will not coax it along; it will simply push your lover away. EVERYONE loves to do forbidden things, so if you forbid her to shag around, it will be on the top of her list of things to do. All one can really do is be kind, fun to be around and a generous partner ( be wild in bed, willing to massage when asked, etc) and this should make your lover want to be exclusive to you. If you do all that and they still want to fuck around, so be it. When people reach the age of 45, they are pretty much set in their ways. No teaching older dogs new tricks. Avoid having "conversations about cheating" as often as you can, as that will surely lead to drama. If she says she might "cheat" if you piss her off, try not to piss her off.
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Is there any safe way of licking pussy? Last time I licked my new girlfriends pussy, the bottom of my tongue was black and blue and tender as fuck for days and my bottom lip looked like someone punched me. I LOVE licking her pussy but she moves about a lot when I am at it and I pay the price for the few days after. I have not licked pussy for a couple of years as I underwent cancer treatments and it seems I must have forgotten how. Her favorite thing is oral, so I have to keep at this.
Swollen but Eager
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I know what you mean. Not an easy task. Go to a drug store (CVS, Walgreens, etc) and get those rubber teeth guards one wears to avoid grinding teeth while sleeping. If you can't find those, look for the rubber inserts they sell with teeth bleaching kits, or lie to your dentist and tell them you tend to grind your teeth at night and want to prevent any damage. Put those on you and then give it a try. You won't injure yourself and will probably be able to munch her out longer and more intense than ever before. One thing to look forward to, you won't have this problem later in life when you lose all your teeth.
Not sure if they are for sale yet, but the oral condom could help too…
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I found out the man I've been with for three years has been having a very intimate correspondence with a woman. Not sexually but emotionally. He knows I can open his email as we sometimes shared it for work. He deletes some mails but forgets to delete others. I know it's invasive but I just couldn't stop. We live apart as he "loves his space". He is 36 and I am 45 but I look young for my age and he looks old for his age. I'm very dependent on him, not only emotionally – my 16 year old son sees him as the male authority, we spend vacations all together, etc. He's never seen this woman, only talks to her on the phone sometimes as I learned from his mails. I don't blame the woman as he made her believe he's single. She's married but obviously looking for changes in her life. I knew he liked to be surrounded by women – both virtually and in reality so I thought she was just one of his fan club but this is different. He's talking to her practically in the same way he talks to me. I'm trying to ignore this and not tell him anything but it's torture. He sees something is wrong with me. He treats me so nice, we see each other almost daily and have sex only once a week ( I want it more!). What's worse we've long planned to spend Christmas holidays with my son and his mother in the country where she lives. The woman lives in the same country. Now my boyfriend tells me he wants to stay there longer to spend more time with his mother after we leave. What should I do? Cancel the trip altogether? But my son wants to go and I have my own friends there that I wanted to see. Keep ignoring this and let him do whatever he wants to do? But I'm very emotional and I know I won't be able to feign indifference for a long time. it makes me really sick, I can't concentrate on anything and I know it damages my ties with my son and other people and even my work performance.
Cynthia the Couga r
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The more you try to prevent this meeting from happening, the more exciting and important it will become for him. If you email her and tell her he is 'taken', you will loose him for good as he clearly likes and demands his freedom. If you confess that you have been following this affair per email, he will see you as a nosy, sneaky, jealous and clingy ball and chain. You two are not engaged, not married or even living together so neither of you can demand monogamy. Would you REALLY want to prevent him from doing something he really wants to do? You would then start to wonder if he is only with you because you intercepted and what would stop him from finding another female fan in the future? Don't mess with fate. If it is meant to be, it is meant to be. Like the boss says, everybody has a hungry heart. He may just be bored. You say he treats you and your son very well and takes care of you and even fucks your properly once a week. You can NOT expect more from a person.
You can't chain them physically down and put blinders on them ensuring they are focused only on you and why would one want that? Just remain calm, stay busy, work out, stay sexy and easy going, get ready for your trip and see how it unfolds. Either way you win. He will either find her boring in person or irresistible and this would then set you free from the constant wondering and feeling of being 2ND in line. You can't change this situation, you can only change how you handle it. Perhaps SHE will find out he is taken and flip out making him appreciate you even more. Let him play his little game, you need to stay busy and enjoy your life, we only get one, this is not a dress rehearsal.
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I just starting seeing this amazing girl and we have great sex often, she is amazingly beautiful but a little insecure in bed not helped by the fact shitty ex bf told her she was a wank jump. I am really into giving her orgasms whenever possible but basically the head job discussion is completely OFF LIMITS. She has advised it's strictly Christmas or birthdays, but has made it clear she's just not into it. I've tried the denial method but fuck that, I love eating vagina. Part of me thinks who cares I'm with someone who likes me but I think maybe the denial is making me want it more. She is young (21) and I'm 34 which is fine, but she had a tough time in her teenage years.
Oral Otis
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You have "great sex often" with a girl who is more than ten years younger than you? Please count your blessings and stop whining. Eventually she will come around and let you lick her pussy on a more regular basis. She is 21, which is when most women are merely starting to figure out what they like and dislike in bed AND you just started seeing her, so please chill and be more patient. Ask her if she would try 69 with you, that way her pussy isn't the only focal point. If she still frowns upon it, oh well, you are still getting what most men crave; regular great sex with a younger woman. If you give up and leave her, the next girl may hate GIVING oral, then you will really be fucked!
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I am a Premature ejaculator. I doubt I am the only one with this problem, but I suffer from this greatly. My last girlfriend cheated on me and when I confronted her she said "I had to fuck someone else, you don't satisfy me" since then, I haven't stated another relationship as I am feeling unworthy of any pussy. My penis is rather large, but I can't hold out for more than 2 minutes. Any advice you have for me would be a gift for me.
Quick Nick
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There are some tricks you can try (1) Wank off hours before you see your girl (2) Always use a condom so it doesn't feel so overwhelmingly amazing (3) Fuck standing up (ejaculation will take longer as your brain is slightly preoccupied keeping you standing & less blood will be in your cock; some has to be in the legs to keep you up and moving (4) Make her cum BEFORE you even start fucking her so she has less to complain about if you finish quickly once you're in there (5) Date a woman who could care less about sex (I KNOW there are many out there, I hear about them everyday from their frustrated partners).
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Relatives keep giving winding me up about being a 36 year old single woman. I really can't take all of this nagging anymore. They harp on me every chance they get. The "I just haven't met Mr. Right" expression isn't helping anymore. Am I the only one who just doesn't care if I am dating or not? I have a cat so I am never lonely. Sick of it All Sally
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At the next family gathering as soon as someone goes there, in a very loud pitch say "I am single because I refuse to take it up the ass, which is a deal breaker nowadays." See how that grabs them.
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I love my wife of 18 yrs; everything used to be OK. I had a drinking problem, and I rarely got sex even though I wanted it. I tried EVERYTHING to turn her on. She's the receiver; never makes any effort to instigate or give sexual pleasure. I quit drinking a year ago and realized how controlling she is. We would be at a party, I would say “I'm going to go talk to whoever” & she would grab my shirt and tell me "NO, stay here, have a drink" Family members would put me down, yet she never said anything, etc. She yells at me for no reason/snapping. I told her it gives me chest pain, yet she continues. I let her control the bills; she has ruined my credit! All this was OK till I started standing up for myself. We Almost divorced 3 times this year, but avoided it by me giving in and trying "once more". Each time we reconciled she would give me all the sex I wanted (for awhile). Then started snapping at me again. I really cant afford to leave her, I don't make enough to live by myself and I love her but I WANT sex, BTW, she Loves me eating her out, but wont give me head where I get to come in her mouth, I told her I really want that- ( not happening ) when we do have sex shes never into it, she just tells me to " hurry" I feel I'm missing out on a lot. I don't know what to do. She says she Loves me more than anything- hhhmmmm
Suffocated Steve
A. In my opinion, if she "loves you more than anything" she would let you cum in her mouth, stop bitching at you and smack the shit out of people who put you down. She is probably so used to you being drunk and apathetic that she doesn't really know the real you anymore and can't understand why you can't be ordered around anymore. If you are going to stay with her, you need to write her a letter so you can get your real thoughts out on paper without her having the chance to interrupt or snap at you while doing so. Tell her you are sorry for being drunk for so many years, but you are back and it is time for you to make up for loss time and take charge of your bills, household, spunk and life in general. She can either relax and enjoy the new your or move the fuck on and spend some other wimps money. Words don't mean anything. Anyone can SAY "I love you" but their actions reveal the truth of the matter. I would personally rather be broke than live with someone who sucks in bed, spends all my money and nags at me. If you do leave her, avoid getting married again, the same fucking thing will happen all over again. Like Chris Rock says "if you like fucking, don't get married".
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I have been going out with this 28yr old designer/film maker for 10 months. I am 31. Generally, he is good. Met his family, his friends,etc. Pretty consistent guy.
He cares for me, but whenever we hang out lately, he is always coming from somewhere, like he'll be at a friends or meeting with a buddy at a bar. I told him my time is valuable and I don't want to be the dumbass waiting for him. He doesn't really get it, but I just been writing it off like he is social and 'you take the good with the bad'. Last night, he did that again- I was waiting at his Manhattan apt. WHILE I was there, I found a list of yoga questions (I am a yoga instructor) for a film idea. Like 'how much do they make' is there sex involved ever' , 401k? what percentage are wanna be actors? how long is the career of a yoga instructor.. A whole long typed up list by him. .. very bazaar. So I called him and asked him. He stuttered, and said 'oh where did you find that.. ?' yo, that shit is weird.
You had to see the questions. it makes me feel he is either mocking me or using me for a film idea! I feel so duped. It was clearly something behind my back; he played it off like it was something he is working on that he is going to talk to me about. In my heart, I don't believe him.
THEN, I asked where are you – WITH A BUDDY AT a bar!!!! He knows I hate that. Needless to say, we shouted, he got defensive, I got upset. He got very explosive about me finding the questions and then questioning his whereabouts. I went home. He called 4 times that night; I didn't pick up.
I never want to talk to him again. Besides being out with his buddy while I am waiting for him, what are those questions about?? (He is a wanna -be producer).
What do you think?
Sulky Susan
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If he is "good" and "consistent" and you've met his friends and family AND he trusts you in his flat while he isn't home, it means he is into you and not such a bad guy. It seems to me you are a bit jaded about men and are looking for mistakes; a reason to bolt. The Yoga list could have been something he was going to ask you about, for his script, but you act like it was a list of hookers he owes money to. Not trying to take sides, but he is ONLY 28, which is young; young enough to still want to hang with buddies in a bar. You are also in a big city; you can't expect men in big cities to put blinders on and put all of their focus onto you. The fact you had to call him and ask where he is means there is something wrong. You should agree upon a time and meet some where mutual, not at his home, waiting like a dog, or worse, his MOM. You're never going to find a perfect man;
but if you want one that will be more attentive, you may have to date an older man who has been through the wringer a few times and prefers nights at home to nights in the pub with his mates. But again, no man is perfect. If the only thing this guy was doing wrong was keeping you waiting (in my eyes that is your fault; make a time and meet somewhere besides your flats to keep the passion of dating alive) and meeting with friends (at least he's not meeting with bitches) and his mysterious list (you should NEVER snoop- a man either loves you madly or he doesn't) then I say pick up the phone when he calls and don't even mention the bitchfest; just pretend it never happened and from now on he has to meet you at a restaurant or a cocktail bar to woo you, instead of just wooing his mates. When you rang him to nag and ask where is he, you could have said "I am busy shaving my pussy and was just wondering should I shave it all off or leave a landing strip?" and he would have RAN home. Games; men live for them.
Q. I have been with my fiance for about 3 years but always on and off. We just got back together on the 2nd of December and the first time I even got to see him was on the 27th of December.He lives with his mom he just turned 18 and has no job which he always says he is looking for one which i know is a lie. I found messages on one of his online sites he goes to and he keeps calling all these other girls hot and sexy and told his ex when me and him were fighting that he was sorry he left her and he wanted to make it up to her but of course he was a total a-hole when he left her and she didn't respond but instead sent me a email telling me about so i asked him and he said no i didnt someone has my password and is "hacking" into my account and sending messages to other people. Well obviously he was lying i know but i still believed him cause i love him. When i try to get him to come here he says he will leave a note for his mom to wake him up but he is always high when he says that and i barely get to talk to him anymore because he is either out partying with his friends or down at his friends house getting high all the time and i dont know what to do i love him but i cant stand him always being high or drunk and he lies to me all the time so please tell me what to do…
Livid Lisa
A. The biggest lies here are the ones you keep telling yourself. You lie to yourself "he loves me, he is just high/sleeping/busy" when you know dam well he is a lying loser. First of all he is ONLY 18!!! People never know what the hell they want at that age!! Engaged? PLEASE! Give me a break. You are both too young ( I assume you are around his age) for such a commitment. Potheads are procrastinators; they never get anything done and guess what? He will probably STILL live with his Mom in ten years. You are wasting your time with him; he is obviously a player; which is normal at his age. Let him enjoy his youth, other girls, grass etc, but you should too. Enjoy your youth as you will only have it ONCE. Do not put up with guys who treat you badly in any way. Once you decide to demand respect, boys like him will clearly be losers in your eyes and that will make things easier. Just stop contacting him, cut all ties and move ON!!!!!
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After 10 years of drooling at my mother in laws sexy feet and wanting to play with them I finally got to rub her feet the other night. My wife was asleep and me and MIL were downstairs watching TV. I had a few beers through the day so my courage was up. She way lying on our couch and slipped her shoes off and I sat there looking at her sexy pedicure. After a few minutes I could not stand it any longer. I sat next to her feet and started rubbing them. I played with her toes, rubbed her soles, I covered every centimeter of her luscious feet. She never resisted and let me do what I wanted. I got horny and was erect. She never said a word, but I could tell she was enjoying it and maybe to the point it turned her on –I’m not sure. I wanted to kiss her feet and suck her toes but I did not go that far. Would it be a mistake to take this any further? I want to have sex with her and I am not sure if she would. But, I want you're opinion if you think its a possibility she got horny from me playing with her feet?
Gilf Feet Fan
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I am sure it excited her. Foot massage, when done correctly, are a huge turn on. If you really love your wife and want to keep her, just stick to massaging your Mother in Laws feet once in a while, which could already be disturbing enough to your wife (you may want to ask your wife permission to massage her mom's feet, but make SURE you massage your wife's feet too- just tell her you LOVE to massage feet). If you don't give a toss about your wife and feel her Mother is the woman of your dreams and are sure the feeling is mutual, then go for it, but know if you leave your wife for her Mom, you will be destroying two relationships, rather than the standard one, when a spouse leaves a marriage for another. You could always just keep the fantasy in your head and use it to enhance sex with your wife. Many people in relationships have fantasies, but we can't always have what/whom we want. Is a sexual thrill enough to make you throw it all away? That is the question you have to ask yourself, as only you can answer it.
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Because I was previously in a long-term relationship, I decided to get an IUD for birth control because I'm unable to take the pill (gives me migraines). Now I'm single again, and concerned about having sex if I start dating someone. Obviously I'd want to use a condom, but since the IUD has strings that aren't exactly soft, I'm worried they could tear the condom and make it useless in terms of having safe sex. I heard you should only have it if you're in a monogamous relationship, so do you think I should have it removed? (I'm not currently sexually active, and haven't thus far had more than one sexual partner at a time).
Contraceptive Connie
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I would have it removed. Not only could it increase the chances of you getting lazy with a new partner "ah go ahead, I can't get pregnant, I have an IUD" after a few glasses of wine, but they increase chances of infection, make new partners wonder (1) What the fuck is that fishing wire doing in her twat-it hurts my cock (that is if you are lucky enough to find one who has a willy that long) (2) Is she really that sexually active that she always has an IUD inserted?. I am certain the string wouldn’t puncture a condom but it's always best to stay on the safe side. Not a fan of the IUD anyways as it alters the fluids in the Uterus and fallopian tubes, which reduces the chances for fertilization. The "Nuva ring" is better, but again, you need to use condoms unless you are in a monogamous, tested and tried, relationship. If you find yourself in one, and feel safe to toss the condoms, try the Nuva Ring instead, the IUD is nothing but drama.
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I’m in a relationship, all is good. BUT, my gf has been out of town for about 2 months and my ex gf, who I chat with online periodically asked me over for dinner. Well, I had a good dinner and ended up getting rid of a nagging 2-month dry spell. I really don’t have feelings for her in a relationship kind of sense, I was just sexually frustrated and my ex was in for the kill from the get go. I guess I just let the wrong “head,” think for me. In the morning we had another round. I’ve never cheated before and don’t intend on doing it again as I feel like a complete cunt. I doubt she would understand but oh the guilt. Should I tell her?
Randy Ralf
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Do NOT confess your infidelity to your girlfriend. It may free you of guilty feelings but it will crush her and ruin the relationship. Everyone makes mistakes. Hopefully it was a safe sex kind of mistake but if not, go have yourself checked out and use condoms from now on with your girlfriend so you don't harm her (tell her you have an urinary tract infection). Every one gets "super horny" and you aren't married, so you won't burn in hell, you will just have a guilty complex for a while which could in turn, make you more grateful for your girlfriends love which may even enhance your relationship. Twisted, I know, but you are not the first person to have a fling and you won't be the last. Just keep it to yourself no matter what as what one doesn't know, won't hurt them (at least mentally/emotionally).
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Do you think there's a direct correlation between mental illness and abnormal penis size? The formula seems to go as follows: guy with big dick = guy with more issues than a yearly subscription to Sports Illustrated. Okay, it's just a hypothesis, but the extra girth seems to be accompanied by a headful of bad wiring and a serious need for some sort of medication — be it the legal variety or otherwise. We're not talking about your garden variety chronic asshole syndrome — but walking train-wrecks who can't maintain relationships (of any sort) to save their lives. An asshole can always find other assholes to commiserate with (other wise how else would they get cops to ride around in squad cars together for eight hours) but these other guys are pretty much all alone in the world. Which is not to say they're deserving of our sympathy (they're not.) But I digress… Curious George
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You are correct George but how do you know so much about Cock size anyways? Sadly, somewhere a long the line, a lover told the man with girth, how wonderful he is, how perfect he and his monster cock are, that he can do no wrong and POOF, an egomaniac is born. Not completely different to a beautiful girl with gigantic naturally big tits. These folks are blessed with extra large "licenses to kill" so to speak. Why fuck just one when EVERYONE wants a ride on your big fat cock? This is how they think. They watch porn and think, "hey, that's me! I am special, I'm built like a brick shit house and I deserve to have an attitude". They usually end up with a complex, knowing that they are treated extra special because of their ridiculously large dick. It's a vicious cycle. They love their big dick, but know deep inside they wouldn't get away with half the shit they dish out if they had a small one. They mentally torture their lover as they silently think "she/he only loves me for my big fat tool". They end up making people beg to fuck them instead of giving it away like most normal horny males. Big cocks are WONDERFUL, but they are usually attached to an overly insecure or overly confident DICK. There’s even a web site http://www.lpsg.org/ that offers support for men with large penises, sigh.
A friend of mine on facebook made a group to try and help get my facebook page back. I spent DAYS uploading all the videos and pictures and adding my friends, naturally I can start a new page but I want my old one back. If you have a minute, please join this group:
I have sent countless emails to facebook and they have not answered one email so far. When I try to sign into my page is says this:
"Your account has been disabled for persistent and rapid use of a certain feature. Unfortunately, for security reasons, we will not be able to further explain these limits."
what the HELL does that mean? What did I do wrong? They never warned me, emailed me, answered me, nothing. Totally rude way of running a web site.
